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Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Qualities of Spouse (Post Marriage Requirements)

Qualities of Spouse That Provide Staying Power in Marriage

For marriage to be an ever-lasting and ever-happy affair, the desirable spouse qualities that must be maintained throughout the marriage are:
  • Respect and trust
  • Open and respectful communication
  • Physically fulfilling intimacy
  • Emotional intimacy and care
  • Chore sharing
  • Friendship (companionship), affection and humor
  • Non-critical
  • Positive behavioral reliability and consistency
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    Saturday, July 30, 2011

    In Lighter Vein

    Laugh it Out

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    • There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman; before marriage and after marriage.
    • Husband searching keywords on Google "how to tackle wife?" Google search result: "still searching".
    • My husband and I divorced over religious differences. He thought he was God, and I didn't.
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    Monday, October 18, 2010

    Shortlist of Vital Qualities in a Spouse

    Must Qualities in a Great Spouse (Qualities Demonstrated towards One's life Partner)
    • Respectful
    • Loving and affectionate
    • Caring
    • Enthusiastic lover (sexually)
    • Cultured and well mannered
    • Supportive
    • Appreciative
    • Faithful
    • Trusting
    • Educated (higher formal education)
    • Free of addictions
    • Hygienic
    • Balanced and composed
    • Capable to earn adequate money

    Saturday, September 4, 2010

    Types of Girls (In Lighter Vein)

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    Seven Types of Girls (in Information Technology Lingo)

    1. HARD DISK Girls:
    Remember everything forever

    2. RAM girls:
    Forgets about you the moment you turn her off

    3. SCREEN SAVER girls:
    Just for looking

    4. INTERNET girls:
    Easy to access

    5. SERVER girls:
    Always busy when needed

    6. MULTIMEDIA girls:
    Make horrible things looks beautiful

    7. VIRUS:
    These type of girls are normally called "WIVES"

    Saturday, December 6, 2008

    Qualities in a Spouse

    Qualities in a Spouse (Potential Spouse or Existing Spouse): applicable to both, husband and wife

    Everyone likes to have a perfect, happy and permanent marriage and married life. To a large extent it may depend on the qualities in the existing or potential spouse, qualities in husband as well as qualities in wife. With good qualities in the marriage partners, the marriage can work wonderfully.

    As a ready reference, given below is a list of some 75 qualities (and disqualifications) one may look out for in an existing or potential spouse. They are arranged simply alphabetically and therefore, order of their presentation does not signify their order of importance.

    Add more those you can think of. Then, arrange them in order of your preference by paired comparison method. Take the prospective candidate and check him/her against these qualities/disqualifications. Can be even more precise by rating him/her on a scale 0 to 5 after attaching weightages to the qualities.

    The List
    1. A person who will help you to make the marriage work
    2. Acceptance of the partner with his/her qualities as well as flaws
    3. Affectionate
    4. Age
    5. Aggressive/Submissive/Assertive
    6. Allows flexibility to spouse (in food and drinks selection, dresses, job etc)
    7. Angry and shouts
    8. Bragging type
    9. Can be a good parent
    10. Caring
    11. Commitment
    12. Common sense
    13. Communicative with spouse and those with whom he comes in contact
    14. Considerate
    15. Discourteous/Rude
    16. Distrustful
    17. Does not get angry
    18. Dominating
    19. Drinks (social drinker likely to get addict or already habitual drinker)
    20. Take drugs/Drug addict
    21. Earnings
    22. Education
    23. Ethical behavior
    24. Fake/Pretends
    25. Family background
    26. Flexible
    27. Friendship
    28. Gossipy
    29. Height
    30. Helping
    31. Honesty/Genuineness
    32. Humility; not arrogant and full of him/herself
    33. Hygiene
    34. Immature
    35. Insults
    36. Intelligence
    37. Jealous
    38. Job
    39. Kindness
    40. Languages
    41. Lazy
    42. Looks
    43. Looks more at qualities than the flaws
    44. Loving
    45. Loyalty towards spouse (no infidelity)
    46. Macho type
    47. Mature
    48. Nationality
    49. Normal health
    50. Not a miser
    51. Not hysterical
    52. Open and sharing (with spouse)
    53. Patient and understanding
    54. Personal responsibility of spouse, children and home
    55. Political
    56. Potential to grow professionally
    57. Pronunciations in different languages (required to deal with people in the society)
    58. Reckless spender
    59. Respectful to spouse and other members of family and society
    60. Rigid
    61. Romantic
    62. Secretive, hides things from spouse
    63. Smokes
    64. Social, has good friends in adequate numbers
    65. Stable (not blow hot blow cold type- changing colors and moods every now and then)
    66. Street smart
    67. Supporting
    68. Suspicious
    69. Takes interest in many things other than profession
    70. Tells lies/Makes stories
    71. Tidy
    72. Trustworthy
    73. Truthful
    74. Unproductive
    75. Uses assertive behavior at appropriate places and occasions (not aggressive)
    If you can think of more (qualities or disqualifications), please put them up in the comments column.

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